Remember the film “The Naked Truth” with Gerald Butler? There, the hero taught his boss the methods of seduction. And he was so successful in this that he eventually fell in love with her himself. It is not surprising that the picture became a real hit, because the topic of dating is interesting for both men and women. And so it will always be.
And about the weather…
A few years ago, I knew exactly how to meet a girl. No, no, I didn’t try for myself, I helped single friends find happiness. Here, let’s say, one of them began to complain about bad luck in love, became limp like a rag, so I immediately demonstrated my super method. I chose the most beautiful girl at the party and argued with the guy for a bottle of champagne that she would not just come to meet him herself, but sit down at the table and even leave her phone number. And every time the man played me champagne.
And I did the following: I approached the girl and introduced myself as a personal assistant to a television producer from the Weather Forecast program. She said that the producer himself is a terribly shy person, but in view of the fact that right now we are looking for a new presenter, having seen such a beauty, by all means wanted to invite her to audition. Could she sit down at our table and say a couple of phrases “And about the weather …” so that the producer looks at her facial expressions and diction.
Needless to say, my ugly friend instantly turned into a fairy-tale prince in the eyes of that girl, she rushed to him, almost crying with happiness. I’ve done this trick fifty times and no girl has ever refused!
Of course, I lied and my friend could not count on any serious relationship after that, but each such situation proved a simple truth: in order to attract attention, to stand out from the gray mass of the same type of cafe visitors, you need very little.
The singer Madonna at one time married Guy Ritchie, because most men were afraid of her, and he, despite the difference in age and her popularity, was not afraid, showed perseverance and ended up at the altar.
To choose an unusual way of dating, to be stubborn and indecently romantic – that, in fact, is all that is needed to conquer a lady’s heart. After a woman has heard “Let’s get to know each other” twenty times, on the twenty-first she will certainly wince at this banality. And the one who destroys this habitual pattern will win.
We are from the future
One of my acquaintances each time presented himself as a man from the future. He said: “I am your future husband, we have two children, a beautiful house in Troekurov, a black Lexus and you are the owner of your own beauty salon on Tsvetnoy Boulevard. If you don’t believe me, now I will write something on a napkin, and when I leave, it will come true. On the napkin, he usually left his phone number and a note: “Tomorrow night you call me and we’ll go for coffee.” And imagine how they called and walked! Because the friend was bold, sassy and funny. This is exactly what we women need.
It wasn’t until years later that I learned that a friend had unknowingly used the powerful NLP technique “Choice Without Choice”—when everything has already been decided for the person and they just need to say yes.
And it did work! By the way, the friend eventually married one of those who called him. He didn’t buy her a Lexus, he didn’t give her a beauty salon, but he honestly fulfilled the promise to have two children.
No need to be smart
Psychologists say that smart words when meeting only get in the way. The efforts that a man usually makes in order to please a woman perceives as unnaturalness and weakness. The more you are afraid of failing, the stronger your fear is felt. But in fact, before meeting the very one, the only one, it is desirable to already have a negative experience. It is he who will help you better understand yourself and get rid of the treacherous trembling in your knees.
One day, a 42-year-old colleague asked me to write a couple of greeting words for him to girls on a dating site. To my surprise, the girls responded best to an offer to go on a date at the Zoo, compliments like “You are one of the few on this site who has intelligence in your eyes,” and the recognition that a colleague was dumped by her girlfriend. And all because we women are compassionate natures, we love flattery and animals. See? Everything is simple.
Another one of our fads is diets. A Canadian acquaintance recently said that they now have the most chic – to get acquainted at the farmers’ market. Probably, they are afraid to go to nightclubs and dark cinema halls or save on tickets. Or maybe they like to watch her lick honey at the tasting … So, these adherents of a healthy lifestyle, fans of parsley and straw bread are the most successful. Because anyone can call to the bar for a glass of wine, and to the market – the most healthy and modern. At least we firmly believe in it.
So, dear men, gather your thoughts together, invent something new and call us on dates as soon as possible!