Having received the task to work out the exercise “Repeat, agree, add,” I was very happy to have the opportunity to argue. And then, when I started doing this exercise, I got upset. It turned out that using this technique, arguing is not at all interesting.
So, I report back. During this task, I had 3 conversations with colleagues and one failed argument at home. How it was?
I explained the technique to my husband and asked him to help me complete the task. The task states that the interlocutors should have really different opinions. My husband and I have been looking for this topic for a very long time. As it seemed to me at first, we have a lot of such topics. While we were sorting through the possible options, it turned out that my husband and I have a lot in common … surprisingly … As a result, we found a topic and the dialogue turned out as follows:
Eu sunt: I think baby crying should be ignored.
soţ: I agree that sometimes babies need to cry and it trains their vocal cords. And since dad has weak nerves, then you shouldn’t do this in front of dad.
Eu sunt: Did I understand you correctly that you can ignore the crying of a child when dad is not at home? I agree that there are things that you should not do with dad. And I want to add that if mom calms the child with dad, and ignores it without dad, then this can confuse the child. In this case, if it worries dad, then he himself can calm her down, while mom «does not see.»
soţ: Yes, I agree. After all, you yourself said that dad should pamper his daughter and be softer with her than mom.
Eu sunt: Sunt de acord.
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